Teased in Chastity (Femdom and Male Chastity Book 2)

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Ask your man to perform subtly erotic tasks that heighten his awareness of your control over his pleasure. He could be asked to prepare your bath, massage your feet, or read erotic literature. Each task serves as a reminder of his role and stokes the fires of anticipation. Or maybe you have friends coming over to watch a football game. In that case, you will do the exact same thing! I’m also opposed to the practice of trying to rely on wet dreams for release - there are several studies showing that frequent ejaculation clears the prostate & associated glands of fluids that can become ‘stale’ & there’s strong evidence this may help prevent development of prostate cancer. Studies showed that men who had more frequent ejaculations had a lower rate of prostate cancer later on. Lastly, we come to the role of tease and denial in enhancing the chastity experience. Chastity, in its very essence, is a form of denial. Yet, it is the tease that brings this practice to life. Tease stokes the fires of desire, making the chastity all the more poignant. It becomes a sweet torment, a delicious game of cat and mouse that leaves the man craving the touch, the approval, and the control of his dominant partner. To make things even worse for him, grind into his crotch to make the spikes dig in even more! Or have him dry hump you instead haha.

Have your slave inhale all those delicious scents while feeling very uncomfortable in that spiky cage! Spiked Chastity Cage Ideas – Final ThoughtsMy wife loves that I voluntarily save myself for her and that I willingly give up my ability to orgasm in favor of always being aroused so that I’m ready to satisfy her whenever she desires. She loves knowing that I’m always wearing my chastity cage under my thong and my agreement to the denial of my orgasm. It’s like a second wedding ring, and it’s our little secret. Allow him to masturbate to orgasm (ruined or normal) and immediately after he is finished, play with him a bit to ensure that he is nice and limp. If your fella is still ready to go, give him another orgasm to make sure that he is nice and soft. Once you are sure that he isn’t popping up anytime soon, give him your best lap-dance and offer yourself to him. Grind yourself on him and act sad and disappointed that he “isn’t interested”. Maybe next time. Things of a Certain Size On the flip side, denial intensifies his desire, keeping him perpetually on his toes (quite literally, if she so wishes). The restraint and discipline required during periods of denial help shape him into a more focused, obedient partner. In this post, we’ll look at some fun games and activities for male chastity. Dressing Sexy and Seductively

Now, if you don't want to go to the extreme like that, you can toss a fake key (just don't let him know so he thinks that is the only real key you have left). Plastic ones tend to chafe, and the heavy metallic ones can be a bit too weighty. Be prepared for some trial and error, as well as a bit of moisturiser to help the skin. But when you’ve found one you can wear indefinitely, it’ll be worth it. For example, make him wear a remote control butt plug that you can turn it on at a moment's notice. One of my readers suggested that she makes her husband sleep on the couch when he is not caged. This makes their time in bed together that much more interesting. He craves the cage because he craves sleeping in bed with her. I thought this was an interesting touch. To Have and to Hold Fortunately, as you learn about ‘edging’ your partner, and what amount of tease and denial he can take, you will still be able to give him a ‘ruined orgasm’.

8. The cruel chastity tease

When you go out to dinner with vanilla friends or family, it is a perfect time to tease and torment your chastity slave. Surprise your man by changing up the routine. This could involve an unexpected tease, an early release, or an extended denial period. The key is unpredictability, which helps keep the anticipation high. Secondly, teasing and denial strengthen the emotional connection between the couple. The man’s physical desire is held at bay, encouraging him to explore other dimensions of intimacy – emotional, intellectual, and even spiritual. He learns to appreciate his partner not just as a lover but as a leader, a guide, a queen. His desire for her goes beyond the physical and delves into a deeper, more profound craving for her happiness and approval. There are lots of wonderful ways to tease him, so I’m going to run down a list of just some of them. Ultimately, you’re the best judge of what’s going to arouse him most since you should know your husband’s particular desires better than anyone. Inform him that you are ONLY letting him out of his old cage to put him into the new, smaller cage.

Week 4: This week, allow a single release at the end, but only if the man has met all the obedience criteria set by his partner. This reward is a potent motivator for further obedience. Get him nice and hard as you bite down on his lip and whisper some naughty things into his ear like: For the release, it should always be contingent on the man’s obedience and his effort to please his partner. The man must understand that his pleasure is under her control and depends on his ability to serve and obey her. Being physically close without the promise of release is a potent tease. Cuddling, gentle caresses, even a simple act like running your fingers through his hair can send shivers down his spine. Show him that intimacy is not only about sexual gratification but also about a deep emotional connection.

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So, you’ve got your schedule and are ready to dive into the mesmerizing dance of tease and denial. But what exactly does this dance entail? What are the steps, the moves, that will make this performance unforgettable? Allow me to guide you through some of the most effective practices to enhance your Female-Led Relationship (FLR) and amplify your partner’s obedience.